Sorry / Angie Eugene's Mom (M.O.M.S)
So sorry for the loss of your son Wes. I guess for both of us we wish that May 6 can be erased from the calender. On May 6, 2007 my son Eugene was murdered by multiple gunshots to the head. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Take care Kayt. And may God be at your side today and always. Close

Never on the sidelines...Wes danced!  / Jude Farar (midwife at his birth )
The  boy was fast moving...quick to be born and eager to take it all in, and at a most rapid pace. He had a big heart, a tender way. He moved fast all the time. Well, almost all the time. When I visited with my baby, he slowed down to play with him and was so loving and gentle. He enjoyed his life.Whether he was playing ball, swimming, climbing or sitting around the campfire, he seemed to get so much pleasure from it.
I always remember him in his clogging shoes. They reminded me of Pee-Wee Herman's borrowed "Tequila" dance shoes. What a hoot! And the kid could dance. He was an endearing spirit.
To his brothers, his step-dad and his mom....know he is remembered with love by many. He was a fine, fine boy. And a good dancer. Close

Thinking of Wesley and Kayt  / Denise Lanuti (friend)
Dear Kayt and Wes,
I am so proud to have known Wes and so glad that I know Kayt.
You are inspiration to me Kayt, your smile, that chuckle of yours and your ability to stay positive,...... amazing.
I will always remember Wes as smiling and concerned about others. He was a very thoughtful and gentle young boy and man. I will never forget him. Thanks for sharing him with us Kayt.
I love you
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Thinking strongly of you today  / Patt (friend of Moms )

Thinking of you today, Wes... your beautiful smile, your boldness. Knowing that your mom still suffers greatly from your loss.

Wrap her tight in Angel Arms today.. and forever.

Help her to dream the sweetest dreams of you that cause her to awaken with a smile on her face... because you have touched it, ever so gently.

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Kaye your son is beautiful  / Patricia Wade
I'm so sorry for your loss. your website is very nice and I enjoyed seeing all your pictures. I use to live in Arkansas. Pine Bluff actually. My relatives are buried in Sheridan and different little places. I lived there for 5 years but just couldn't make a living. We lost John 7 weeks ago, he was murdered by three guys. They tied his feet with his sweater, beat him, strangled him with his dog's chain and robbed him. Close

Your song  / Donna Farar (Sister/Friend to his Mom )
Hi Wes,

I just wanted to let you know that your Mom sent the lyrics she wrote for you "The Day the Bug Flew in My Ear" to my son, Clay. He has written music to go with the lyrics. He was deeply touched by your Mother's love for you and deeply saddened to know you are no longer on the planet with us. He hopes you and your Mom will like the song. I only saw you when you were just a young child, but I see from your photos that you grew into a handsome, talented and dedicated young Man. My life has been touched by you via your Mother Kayt. I am blessed to have her in my life and we were all blessed to have you on this planet with us for even a short time. Here is a poem for you by Carl Sandburg:

Bubbles

Two bubbles found they had rainbows on their curves.
They flickered out saying:
"It was worth being a bubble just to have held that
rainbow thirty seconds."

Yes, Wes, you definitely held that rainbow!!!

Love and Peace,
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Thinking of You  / Darien Russell (Mom's Friend )
Wes, I lived in Arkansas for about ten years and knew your mom but not well. My daughter Keara was murdered on April 5 2006. Your Mom has been a great support to me during this time. Through her I feel as if I know you and I believe that you and Keara would have been friends if you knew each other in life. You both walked to the beat of a different drummer. I hope that you know each other now and are having a good time . Know that your mom's love and support each other and we love you and you will always live on in our hearts. Close

Happy Birthday in Heaven  / Robin Mariconi -. Benack (Moms Friend )
Wesley know your Mom and all of us who have lost our children wish you a very HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN HEAVEN. My Chris' Birthday is 9/20/80..I hope the two of you are celebrating together..Stay close to your Mom and let her know your in a beautiful place that we can only imagine..In friendship and sorrow, Robin Chris' Mom Always Close

Tribute to Wesley  / Beverly Ribaudo (Sister Mom )




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HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEET ANGEL!!!  / MICHELE-TONY'S-MOM BROWN (A ANGEL MOM )

HELLO WESLEY,I SEND UP MANY HUG'S IN YOUR HONOR FOR YOUR SPECIAL DAY,HEAVEN HAS PREPARE A BIG DAY FOR YOU WITH ALL THE ANGEL'S,I PRAY FOR PEACE TOMMOROW,MY PRAYER'S AND MY THOUGHT'S ARE WITH THIS FAMILY,

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THE WEB-SITE IS BEAUTIFUL!!  / MICHELLE-TONY'S MOM BROWN (A CONCERN MOTHER )
BEAUTIFUL,I KNOW WESLEY IS SMILING DOWN ON HIS MOTHER AND HIS FAMILY,THE MUSIC IS WONDERFUL,MY SON TONY LOVES BOB MARLEY,HIS FAVORITE WAS DON'T WORRY BE HAPPY,MY PRAYER'S ARE WITH THIS FAMILY,WESLEY IS A BEAUTIFUL ANGEL NOW,YOU WILL SEE HIM ONE SWEET DAY,GOD BLESS MICHELLE-TONY'S MOM! Close

Happy St. Patricks Day  / Jeri ~Laquan's Mom~

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miss you guys...  / Zack Burns (friend of family )
its been a long time kate.... hope everyone is great. when i herd i 
didnt believe it .. was hard for me to accept.. i know casey and everyone had a hard time with it.. you where a mom to all of us and for that i thank u from the bottom of my heart.. i keep thinking of the times of me and casey and wes in fox going camping and fishing or playing at the pool in mt. view or going to the baseball games as kids .... i miss having a "good time" at richus springs festival if u remember you guys took me there when my grandfather died of cancer and kate you will never know how much that ment to me and the family... my best friend billy passed and yet again i found myself up on the mountain at the cabin .... again i thank u.... time goes by too fast... i miss u all and hope kyle, casey, willy and the rest of the family are doing great. If there is anything you ever need feel free to email or call me any time even if u just need someone to talk to and that goes for all the family.. tell casey to keep in touch i would love to hear from him..  i have some old photos of me and wes and casey maybe sometime i can email them to u...  keep in touch and have a great tomorrow.
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This breaks my heart  / Lindsey Burns -. Aguirre (Childhood Friend )
Lindsey here, Zach Burns little sister.  I heard about Wes from Zach a couple of years ago and it truely broke my heart!  I typed in Wes' name today and found this website.  He was such a great person.  I wanted to extend my condolences to you and Casey.

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Have You Ever  / Kayt Fossler (MOM)

HAVE YOU EVER?

Have you ever had a child?
Reach inside yourself and find
All the love you have ever known:
Love of family and friends,
Love of pets, possessions and places,
Love of favorite foods, music and experiences.
Take all your loves, big and small
And let them fill your heart with joy.
What a wonderful feeling!
Yet it barely begins to scratch the surface
Of the depth of love one has for their child.

Have you ever lost a child?
Reach inside yourself and find
All the pain you have ever known:
Pain of losses and regrets,
Pain of illness, lost loves and rejection,
Pain of memories, failures and unfulfilled dreams.
Take all your pains, big and small
And let them fill your heart with sorrow.
What a terrible ache!
Yet it barely begins to scratch the surface
Of the depth of pain one has for the loss of their child.

When you lose a child, you lose a part of yourself - literally.
And you lose a part of your future: your hopes and dreams.
No one ever fully recovers from the loss of a child.
Please do not expect that we will ever "get over it".
Our hearts will forever be scarred by our loss.
Over time, the scars will fade,
And we will come to treasure those scars
Not as reminders of our loss
But of our tremendous capacity for love
And how we are so very blessed
To carry the memory of our child forever.

So please forgive us our tears
They may seem to come too often,
But know that they are helping us heal.
You cannot protect us from our memories
Nor stop our remembrance with your avoidance.
So please ask us about our child,
For we need to speak of them.
And please share your children with us,
For we need to share in the joy of others.
We are uncomfortable too, but we need you
To be present, to listen and to embrace us with compassion.

HIS MOM

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some Graphics for you  / Dottie Angel Mom To Matthew Hagan ^i^ (Visitor)

I know you have heard it all before, I know I have. I am so sorry for your loss. I know the pain. Nothing I can say or do could ease your pain. It has been 3 1/2 years for my son. The pain still feels like yesterday. 



Just a few graphics I thought I would send for you. 


I hope you like these.  I know it isn't much. But I hoope they make you smile. Here is one more, Don't want to take up too much of your  space on here. 


I hope these give you a smile...If you ever want to talk, don't hesitate to contact me. 

Friends in Grief
Dottie
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I Miss You  / Jeri ~Mom To Laquan Majette~ (Memorial Friend )

I Miss You 


I miss your laughter, fun and gentleness.
I miss the things I used to do for you.
I miss the time, now filled with emptiness,
When each day was a stage for something new.
I miss your love, though mine for you remains,
A passion with no outlet to the sea,
A teardrop in the desert, that contains
What's left of my maternal ecstasy.
I miss your presence, like a silent cord
That anchored even solitude in grace.
I miss, for my love's labor, the reward
On seeing some small pleasure on your face.
All these I miss, and yet they are all here
Within my heart, far more than I can bear.

~ By Nicholas Gordon ~ 

September 12, 2006
Remembering Wes

Happy Birthday In Heaven!
Jeri, Your Memorial Friend

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W / Kayt (MOM)
                             We remember Them

In the rising of the sun,
 and in it's going down,
  We will remember them;

In the blowing of the wind
 and in the chill of winter,
  We will remember them;

In the opening of the buds
 and in the warmth of summer,
  We remember them;

In the rustling of leaves
 and the beauty of autumn,
  We will remember them;

In the brginning of the year
 and when it ends,
  We will remember them

When we are weary
 and in need of strenght,
  We remember them;

When we are lost
 and sick at heart
  We will remember them;

When we have joys 
 we yearn to share,
  We will remember them;

So long as we live,
 they too shall live,
  for they are now a part of us as
  We remember them

From Gates of Prayer


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I'M RESTING NOW  / Jeri Majette (Memorial Friend )

IM RESTING NOW

 

I’m resting in the sunshine now, the way I know I should.

In a garden filled with beauty, where the air is always good.

I’ve obtained a place where real estate is priceless and so fine…

Where friends are always glad to call, and say, “it’s just Divine.

 

While the years on earth pass swiftly, here we have no fear of time.

For the fears of life have vanished, and the atmosphere’s sublime.

 

Tell my friends, I’ll always love them,

and our God is overall.

So, we’ll meet again in Heaven,

When they hear the Father’s call.

 

For the flowers and the friendship, and the joys of life we’ve shared,

there’s the sweetest kind of memory, in the faith we’ve all declared.

 

So, God bless you all, in passing.

May your days ahead be filled,

with the finest and truest,

till we go where God has willed.

 

Author unknown~

 
Rest in Heavenly peace, Wes
Jeri (mother of Laquan Ali Majette)

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Victim Advocate/Prosecutor'--s Office  / Stephanie Terlep (Victim advocate )
As a man, Wes was thoughtful, caring and kind.
As an angel, Wes is thoughtful, caring and kind.
Perhaps, he became impatient to go onto the Greatest Adventure of All. 
I can well imagine him, sitting next to the Thrown of his Creature and asking Him:  "Why do bad things happen to good people?"
I imagine him and Cassity, tell jokes and making God laugh!
I can hear his laughter in the sound of the pounding surf.
We are all spirits, learning to be human.
In spirit and in Fact, Wes is with us still.
Talk to him, and he will listen.
Hear him speaking through the gentle breeze rustling threw the trees or through the hurricans, depending on his moods.
Watch him smile at us, whenever we see a beautiful flower in bloom.
In our hearts we say:  "We love you, Wes!"
In our prayers we say: "We miss you, Wes!"
In unison we say: "Rest in peace, brother!" Close